An interesting survey, conducted by www.slendex.com pinpoints the ups and downs of women’s weight throughout a relationship. The researchers keyed in on 5 stages of weight fluctuation – presented as follows;
Stage I: Dating/courtship: There was an average loss of about 5 pounds (to impress new flame, no doubt)
Stage 2: The Comfort Zone: Average weight gain 10 lbs. (more at ease in relationship and less likely to focus on weight.
Stage 3: The Big Day: Average weight loss 8 Ibs. (“brideorexia” – getting in shape for wedding.
Stage 4: Baby Boom: Average weight gain 14.3 lbs. (a time where fitness and healthy eating take a back seat to caring for little one(s).
Stage 5: The Reinvention: Average weight loss 10.4 lbs (more time on hands now that kids are in school which means more time for themselves)
Of the 3,000 women questioned, nearly 70 per cent said that their relationship was the biggest factor in their well-being and a quarter believed that they would turn their partner off if they put on a stone or two.
70 per cent admitted that they were less apprehensive about their weight and appearance when they felt content in their relationship.
Further Thoughts
It always interests me how relationships effect weight and health. These stages certainly make sense. Here’s my take on relationships and weight:
I wonder what kind of weight fluctuation men in relationships experience?
It would also be interesting to see the weight difference between those in relationships and those who are single.
Regardless of relationship status, there tends to be an upward swing in weight from the age of 25 to the tune of 3% fat mass per decade, with a corresponding 3-5% loss in muscle tissue.
It’s a little sad that there are such a large proportion of women who believe their partner would be turned off if they gain weight.
Although… (I tread very lightly here)
Whether we are talking women or men, I have a problem when I hear of people “letting themselves go” after marriage. To use myself as an example (sounds less deprecating), if I were to gain weight (I’m not talking a pound or two – more like 25-30), sure I would expect my partner to love me regardless, HOWEVER, I would also expect her to be annoyed. Annoyed primarily that I am compromising my health, but also annoyed at the lack of respect for her. What message would I be sending her if I didn’t care how I looked? It is a direct slight to that person, in my opinion.
All that said, there are “good ways” and “not-so-good ways” to broach such issues.
Have you noticed a fluctuation in weight while in a relationship? Do you think relationships are ultimately good or bad for the waistline?
Source: Telegraph
Although this number sounds about right, the interpretation of the results leaves much to be desired. Here are some of the study’s details and why I agree with the conclusion but disagree with the methodology. 



